Monday, September 24, 2018
Those Insufferable Old Bastards
I remember watching the Anita Hill hearings as the old white male senators, two of them the same as today, demeaned her and diminished her. Remember "a little bit nutty and a little bit slutty"? They accused her and abused her. It was obvious they didn't have a clue and didn't want a clue. They were content living in their privileged male dominated world with women as wives and secretaries and waitresses, not to be trusted with the truth.
That was in 1991 and here we are again, all these decades later, and nothing has changed, not even the people.
Of course, the next year was the Year of Woman. We thought we'd made progress toward becoming a more equal society.
But by now, we know the more things change the more they stay the same. The white male patriarchy will never give up its authority willingly.
America has always had a pecking order of importance. From the very beginning, it was white elite males, then black men, then women. African-American men got the right to vote via the 15th Amendment in 1870 - not that it did them much good as they were often denied the ability to exercise their franchise.
Women were not deemed worthy to vote until 1919, almost 50 years later! And that was after marching and protesting and being beaten and being jailed and being denigrated.
Presidential politics followed the same path. Forty-three white male presidents, then one black man Many of us truly saw Barack Obama's election as a sign of hope and change but what it actually did (especially when he was followedby Donald Trump) was give the racists among us permission to come out of the closet and take off their masks.
The level of virulent hatred against Obama was shocking, even though he was a good president who'd done exactly nothing to deserve it. Michelle was treated with the same nastiness despite the grace and beauty she brought to being our First Lady.
My conservative debaters tell me he was the worst president ever but they can never explain what he did to make them feel that way. But, oddly, they knew it before he ever took office, before they knew what he would do. I can see no other explanation but racism, pure and simple.
In the following presidential election, we had our first female candidate of one of the major parties and oh, my, God, the only thing that could be worse than a black man is a woman! Hillary was immediately vilified. She was every awfulness you could imagine wrapped up in one. She was a thief, a lesbian, a murderess, a traitor. With no evidence whatsoever, the right wing was convinced that at the least, she should be "locked up" but burning at the stake would be even better.
Now the old white elites are kicking it into gear again. Brett Kavanaugh is their perfect candidate. Product of affluence, arrogance and the entitlement mentality. Schooled in ivy league educational institutions that encourage men like him to believe they are the best of the best and should be able to have it all, whether that includes women or a place on the Supreme Court. It is owed to them as a kind of divine right.
Republicans and the President himself question why it took Doctor Ford so long to tell her story but all you have to do is look at the way Anita Hill was humiliated to know why women don't speak up. And now we are going to watch the old bastards destroy Doctor Ford as well. Why didn't she come forward sooner, indeed?
I was the victim of an attempted rape when I was 15. I was told afterwards that if I got their friend in trouble, the boys in high school would make sure no one ever spoke to me again. I would be shunned as a pariah, maybe I would even be attacked physically. I was terrified and didn't open my mouth for years, until long after we'd moved from that town.
When I was the Women's Outreach Director, women felt comfortable telling me their stories because they didn't think I'd judge them. I was stunned by how prevalent sexual assault, domestic violence and incest were. Most women then felt absolutely helpless to do anything about it. Police, prosecutors, judges were all men and most of them believed crimes against women belonged in a lesser category. Many of the women ended up recanting because with no support in the legal system, they believed it was the safest action they could take.
So, these old men, who seem not to have a drop of empathy in their souls think she must be doing it for money or glory or politics. They can't believe women would put themselves through this torture for love of country, not wanting a man they see as having no honor getting a lifetime appointment to the Supreme Court.
They don't understand it because of course, they would never have the integrity to do it.